Why Muslims do not invite me?

Recently i met a Shia Syed, who complained me some of his Muslim friends do not invite him in their traditional functions, because Sadq...

Recently i met a Shia Syed, who complained me some of his Muslim friends do not invite him in their traditional functions, because

1. Sadqa is Haram on him.
2. He do not listen songs and avoid Mix gathering.
3. His wife wear hijab.

I asked him to explain and he explained like this.

• Sadqa is Haram on him.
His friend called him and said we are celebrating one traditional function( Mundan) and Mutton we will serve is a Sadqa which is Haram for you. So please do not mind.
• He do not listen songs and avoid Mix gathering.
Another Society friend invited so many Muslims in a marriage ceremony of his son but neglected him because of mix gathering and songs in that ceremony.
• His wife wear hijab.
One of his friend said “ meri begum(wife) aap sae purdah nahin kerti toh aap maeri baizzati kyoon kertae hain, khud ki biwi ko mujh sae purda kerwa kae”

and the result was relationship break.

I was thinking where we are going?